Widower Texts Late Wife, Skips Lunar New Year in Mourning (Full Transcript)
[00:00:00] Speaker 1: I just keep talking to her. I just think she may listen. I lost my wife, I lost my property, lost my house. Her name was Pak Shui Lin. I keep her phone number. Maybe something I would like to tell her. I will text her or leave a voice message. My grandson, my granddaughter, they do something. She may like or she may love, may laugh. I will tell her. We will not celebrate anything for this Lunar New Year. For our Chinese tradition, if we have someone pass away, we also won't celebrate anything. I don't know what I do. The last two months, my two sons are always accompanying me to do everything. I don't know how to face it if someday they leave me alone. I don't know how.
- The speaker copes with grief by maintaining a symbolic connection to his late wife through her phone number and messages.
- Chinese mourning customs shape the family’s decision not to celebrate Lunar New Year.
- Family support—especially from his two sons—is currently essential to his day-to-day functioning.
- He experiences significant anxiety about future loneliness and how he will cope without his sons’ constant presence.
- Sharing grandchildren’s moments provides brief comfort and a way to honor his wife’s memory.